Do you always get your message across? Does your partner hear what you want him or her to hear? Conscious Listening is an essential component in Co-Creating a Conscious Relationship, and being a good Sender will assure that you get your message across. If you sometimes struggle with emotional conversations, here are some guidelines for you to follow.

1. When an issue, problem, thought, or feeling arises that you need to talk about, do not begin the discussion if you are feeling elevated, anxious, frustrated or angry. Waiting for the emotions to subside so you can think and speak slowly, calmly, clearly, respectfully, and safely is critical.

2. Make an appointment with your partner, and in a brief statement let him or her know what the issue, problem, thought, or feeling is. Include the degree of importance and approximately how much time you think you will need to complete the message.

3. Always limit the message to one topic and send only a couple of sentences at a time. Give the Receiver a chance to paraphrase. Always begin with I to make the issue about you.

4. Keep the communication safe, honest, peaceful, respectful, and loving, and do not use any Relationship Killers.

5. Take all the time you need to deliver your message. After the Receiver says, Please tell me more, keep digging to find the root of your frustration, pain, or negative energy.

6. When discussing the issue, thought, or feeling, talk about your fear and pain instead of blaming, projecting, or growing angry or critical. Talk about how the issue, thought, or feeling reminds you of something in your childhood or past relationships.

I hope you and your partner
Gain the Awareness, Learn the Skills and
Practice the Techniques so you are successful on your
Journey from I-TO-WE to live your lives as each others

Best Friends During the Day,
Lovers at Night, and
Partners for Life

2006 All Rights Reserved Glenn Cohen
I-TO-WE Relationship Coaching

Glenn Cohen

Glenn Cohen is a professionally licensed relationship coach through the Relationship Coaching Institute and completed his coaching proficiency skills through the Coach?s Training Institute. His personal life challenges inspired his study of the dynamics of relationships and the complex emotional factors, which contribute to successful communication, peace, joy, and happiness versus disappointment, frustration, resentment, and conflict.

Through research and successfully coaching couples, Glenn developed the principles and methodology of the ?Co-Create a Conscious Relationship?? program. In addition to coaching couples, today Glenn trains other coaches, healthcare professionals and religious counselors on the use of the ?Co-Create a Conscious Relationship?? program for pre-marital and committed couples.

He attended the University of South Carolina and holds a Bachelor of Science degree from the University of Texas. Through his experiences and years of research, he was inspired to create a program that encompassed the ?best of the best? from other professionals and his own personal journey. This all-inclusive, comprehensive manual has been praised by professionals and clients alike.

Glenn Cohen?s proven methods have resulted in clients creating a happier and more satisfying life. The results offer a solid foundation for relationships that embrace safety, friendship, trust, respect, admiration, joy, passion, and love.

Glenn Cohen currently resides in Charleston, South Carolina, where he continues his private practice coaching individuals and couples. Glenn coaches clients from all over the country via telephone and the internet. You may contact him for individual coaching, couples coaching, a speaking engagement, seminars, or workshops.

Glenn Cohen "I-TO-WE" Relationship Coaching? Phone: 843-852-9828 gcohen@itowe.org i-to-we-relationship-coaching.com